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TC is a published columnist, Lead Host on DC TV-13, covering the City Council and air personality on Smooth Jazz 105.9 FM.  She has been featured on Live with Regis, and in Essence, and Heart & Soul magazines.  Her columns have appeared in Style magazine, Black Elegance, and The Washington Afro newspaper.  A passionate advocate for women's empowerment, TC produces her website:  www.sistacircle.com .   Email TC at tc@sistacircle.com

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'Tis the Season to Shop Safely    

By T.C.

Alright ladies, the crunch is on.  The holiday season is in full swing and Christmas and Kwanzaa are just days away.  You've spruced up your home, maybe hung a few lights, made that gift-giving list and checked it twice.  But some of the holiday preparations have risks.  I'm not talking about the fact that the season is filled with tons of yummy food, the nemesis of every dieter on the planet.  Nor am I referring to the possibility of suffering a burn while preparing your soulful, bountiful feast (can't wait).  I'm talking about going shopping.  
 
While we head blissfully for the malls, humming along to the radio and The Temptations' "Silent Night" in the process, there are those looking for an opportunity to do their shopping, illegally!  Criminals prey on holiday shoppers, and women top their "list" as the most vulnerable.  Strolling through crowded malls while carrying your jacket, juggling countless bags and keeping your child from breaking anything you can't afford to buy, makes you an attractive target to criminals looking to grab your purse and your purchases.  To protect yourself:
Shop with a friend or relative if possible

There is some security in numbers, and they may also possibly spot that perfect gift for you!

Be aware of your surroundings. 

Take notice: As you walk to and from the stores, are there any people loitering about? Pay attention to who is nearby in parking lots.

Ladies, try to conceal your purse.

At the very least, hold it securely,and don't put your purse on the seat of a cart as you push the cart toward your vehicle –– your purse would be an easy target.

Hide your packages.

If you are going to put gifts in your vehicle and do more shopping, place them in the trunk or at least out of sight. Anything left in sight is a temptation and fair game to criminals.

If shopping at night

Particularly if you're carrying several bundles, ask a security officer to accompany you to your car. Most malls will provide that service.

 
Avoid using bathrooms that are tucked away
 

In a back area of a mall concourse. If you can, find a bathroom near the mall's food court or other well-trafficked area. Always accompany your child to the bathroom.

 
If you have a baby or toddler
 

Be especially watchful when strapping her into the car seat. Criminals know this is a vulnerable time for you; for a few moments, you'll be distracted - a good time for them to rob you.

 
Never use a video arcade or toy store as a baby sitter;
 

Predators are on the prowl for unattended children.  More then 100,000 children are abducted every year - often in malls or department stores, according to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC).

  
Find out about the malls and stores you frequent.  

Do they have procedures to search for a missing child? Wal-Mart is among several retailers participating in a program developed by the NCMEC.  The program, called Code Adam, named after Adam Walsh, a 6-year-old Florida boy (son of John Walsh of TV's America's Most wanted) who was killed after being abducted from a shopping mall in 1981. As soon as a child is reported missing, employees scour the aisles and lock all store entrances. If the child doesn't turn up after 10 minutes, the police are notified.

Leave clothing that displays your children’s name at home.

These items offer TMI  (too much information),  and can prompt unwelcome attention frompeople who may be looking for an opportunity to start a conversation with your  children.

 
Keep these tips in mind when you're out and about this holiday season.  Although It's a time for peace and goodwill, crime peaks at this time of year as well.  Don't let the predators steal your joy.  Be safe, enjoy family and friends, count your many blessings and always remember the reason for the season!




TC's Previous Articles

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"Love the Skin You're in (and damn the stretch marks!)"
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"I’m not your superwoman! Or am I?"
"Lessons in the positive, How to deal with negative folks"
"Is chivalry still alive?"
"A Good Man Is Not So Hard to Find in DC!"

 

 
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