"Eat, Drink and Be Wary! "
"Prayer: The unsung hero (for Sean)"
"When a Relationship is Over"
"Love the Skin You're in (and damn the stretch marks!)"
"And the Waters Were Calm - Facing Our Fears"
"I’m not your superwoman! Or am I?"
"Lessons in the positive, How to deal with negative folks"
"Is chivalry still alive?"
"A Good Man Is Not So Hard to Find in DC!"
TC is a published columnist, Lead Host on DC TV-13, covering the City Council and air personality on Smooth Jazz 105.9 FM. She has been featured on Live with Regis, and in Essence, and Heart & Soul magazines. Her columns have appeared in Style magazine, Black Elegance, and The Washington Afro newspaper. A passionate advocate for women's empowerment, TC produces her website: www.sistacircle.com . Email TC at tc@sistacircle.com
'Tis the Season to Shop Safely
By T.C.
There is some security in numbers, and they may also possibly spot that perfect gift for you!
Take notice: As you walk to and from the stores, are there any people loitering about? Pay attention to who is nearby in parking lots.
At the very least, hold it securely,and don't put your purse on the seat of a cart as you push the cart toward your vehicle –– your purse would be an easy target.
If you are going to put gifts in your vehicle and do more shopping, place them in the trunk or at least out of sight. Anything left in sight is a temptation and fair game to criminals.
Particularly if you're carrying several bundles, ask a security officer to accompany you to your car. Most malls will provide that service.
In a back area of a mall concourse. If you can, find a bathroom near the mall's food court or other well-trafficked area. Always accompany your child to the bathroom.
Be especially watchful when strapping her into the car seat. Criminals know this is a vulnerable time for you; for a few moments, you'll be distracted - a good time for them to rob you.
Predators are on the prowl for unattended children. More then 100,000 children are abducted every year - often in malls or department stores, according to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC).
Do they have procedures to search for a missing child? Wal-Mart is among several retailers participating in a program developed by the NCMEC. The program, called Code Adam, named after Adam Walsh, a 6-year-old Florida boy (son of John Walsh of TV's America's Most wanted) who was killed after being abducted from a shopping mall in 1981. As soon as a child is reported missing, employees scour the aisles and lock all store entrances. If the child doesn't turn up after 10 minutes, the police are notified.
These items offer TMI (too much information), and can prompt unwelcome attention frompeople who may be looking for an opportunity to start a conversation with your children.

